Guaranteeing Your Wedding Guests Have a Blast

Not sure who doesn't want their wedding to be amazing and "FUN."  After all, nobody wants guests bored to death, or bailing after the first dance. You can't make your guests have fun if they are not feeling it, and if your guests have their hearts set on pouting in the corner, then there's nothing you can do to stop them. But you can guarantee that YOU have a GREAT time! And if you can get your guests to see you having a great time, then everything will naturally fall in to place.

Be the Example for Others to Follow
Want your wedding to be fun? Then you need to have fun or at least look like you are having a blast!  Your guests will be looking to you for guidance because you are the stars of the show.  If you aren't having a good time, chances are they won't, either. On the other hand, if you're having the time of your life, your guests will be compelled to join you.  If you want your guests on the dance floor, get on the dance floor!  Your guests will be drawn to you like moths to a flame. Making sure you have fun at your own wedding is the number one way to guarantee a killer party.

Add in a surprise element
Know a funky little dance number that you could do with your groom, your father, or even with a few members of your wedding party? Do it! Get some great ideas on youtube and start practicing now!

Create a comfortable environment.
What do I mean by a "comfortable" environment?  It's making sure that your guests know what to do, when to do it, and they have everything they need to relax and enjoy the process. This is where booking the right venue becomes critically important. Your venue sets the tone for the wedding; it can be formal and elegant or laid back and relaxed. 

Stay present
I can't tell you how many times I've seen the bride or groom disappear from their own wedding. When the bride or groom leaves the wedding celebration, it's like the air gets sucked out of the room.  People get lost and wander around like lost puppies. If you want your party to be fun, STAY IN THE MIX.

Get your photos done early.
Work with your photographer to plan your formal portraits so that you can join your guests for as much of your cocktail hour and reception as possible. If you leave your reception for a photo session, the party dies without you.  It's your wedding and they need you to have fun. Do yourself a favor and allow plenty of time for a leisurely photo session before the reception.  

Share your story with your guests.
Your guests will have the most fun when they are engaged and involved in your wedding.  The best way to engage them is by sharing your love story and the interests, hobbies and quirks that make you who you are. There are lots of ways to do this.  Personalize your vows.  Have your entertainer tell your love story to your guests.  Take the microphone and tell them yourself.  Share your story in your program or on a card at each table. Find a way to share your story that fits you.  It will have a huge impact on how much fun your guests have at your wedding.

Don't extend the ceremony
You have been there before, right? You know, the longest wedding nuptials ever? You couldn't wait to leave, or you ended up accidently falling asleep waiting for it to end. Your cousin sang, and then your uncle and brother gave a reading, while the pastor went in to a diatribe about marital bliss that lasted over 30 minutes.  Don't do it to your guests! Keep your ceremony moving and on point. If you're going to extend anything - let it be the reception!

Hire Professionals
Don't count on Aunt Vicky to cater to your 200 plus person wedding, or your nephew Jake to provide free DJ services. Your guests deserve a chance to enjoy your wedding too! Hire professionals, and let the stress melt away. Your wedding vendor team interacts with your guests and guides them through the day. Guests feel comfortable when they know what's going on and what's expected of them.  Make sure your team guides the flow of events so that everyone knows where to go and what to do. This sets the stage for a great time!

Ensure you have a great DJ
Nothing is worse than having a boring DJ at your wedding. Make sure that your Dj is a professional, can double as an MC,  and is thoroughly verified. For some great DJ's check out our "Vendors We Love" page or ask us for a recommendation! Make sure this DJ knows how to get the party up and moving! You want your guests feet to hurt from dancing all night!

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